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How Our Differences Can Bring Us Together

Yesterday, I was walking with my friend and we were singing an old song from our childhood that went: "One of these things are not like the other. One of these things just doesn't belong." We have been taught to find differences in things since we were children. The problem is that we believe that different means separate.  But science says something different. Quantum physics shows us that we all come from a "unified field". We are all made of the same things. That ecosystems thrive on diversity. That different doesn't mean separate at all.  [...]

By |2020-08-14T15:05:03-04:00August 14th, 2020|Categories: Emotional Health, Hope, Philosophy, Relationships, Spiritual Growth|Tags: , , |0 Comments

Why Give & Take Doesn’t Belong in Relationships

There is amazing joy possible in relationships. We can truly love and feel loved. We can merge together and experience union. We can feel safe to grow and be vulnerable. We can be strong for each other. We can feel the kind of intimacy where we can let down all of our guards and be fully seen and loved and accepted. This is the kind of union that we are designed for. “Give and take” doesn’t belong in that kind of relationship. “Give and take” asks us to put a certain amount of something into a central pot - [...]

Why Talking to Strangers about the Weather is Important

I love talking to strangers... well, I love talking to people period. And this includes people I’ve known and loved for a long time and total strangers in the street, behind the cash register, and even driving in the car next to me while stuck in traffic. And yet, as I walked to Starbucks this morning at 6am, the streets were empty and every so often, I would pass someone. Sometimes they would easily turn to me, smile and say “Good morning”. But more often, they would make an effort to look the other way and not make connection. [...]

By |2020-02-17T20:44:40-04:00February 17th, 2020|Categories: Relationships|Tags: , , , , |0 Comments